More than a profile picture
Profiles tell you age and hobbies — not how someone laughs or treats people. Our live Zoom Meetups let members interact in a relaxed group setting before deciding to connect one-on-one.
Founding members get Diamond free through December 31, 2026. Free Zoom meetups start November 2026.Reserve my seatFor Seventh-day Adventist singles
Meet verified Adventist singles who are serious about marriage.
You shouldn't have to explain the Sabbath, your diet, or your faith to someone you're getting to know. Here, everyone already understands. Every member is verified, and every member is here for the same reason: a Christ-centered marriage.
Free to join. No card needed. All adult ages welcome.
Verified with ID and live selfie
Optional home church reference
Marriage-minded members only
Membership
Free to join, plans when you want more
Profile, verification, browsing and 15 likes a day stay free. Diamond adds unlimited likes, advanced filters and no ads. Premium adds Super Likes, Who Likes You, 3 Boosts a month, Passport and messaging before matching.
See plans and pricing“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?”•Amos 3:3
Safety and trust
Everyone here is who they say they are.
Most dating apps let anyone sign up with a photo and a made-up name. We don't. Before you can message anyone, we confirm you're a real person. That protects you, and it protects the person you're talking to. We believe that is part of treating one another the way Christ would.
Bronze: Confirmed
You confirm your email address. This is the first step every member takes.
Silver: Verified
You upload a government-issued photo ID and take a live selfie, and we match the two. Your ID is used only for verification. It is never shown on your profile.
Gold: Church Recommended
A pastor, elder, or church leader from your home church confirms that they know you. It's optional, and it's the highest level of trust we offer.
Your badge appears on your profile, so you always know who you're talking to before you say hello.
Meaningful connections start with prayer.
Unlike casual dating apps built around instant swiping, our community is built on purpose, faith, and patience. Members here take the time to pray, reflect, and seek God’s guidance before moving forward. If responses take a little longer, know that it reflects thoughtful intention, not a lack of interest. Good things grow through patience and faith.
Why us
A meetup space built around your faith
Mainstream apps weren't made for Sabbath-keepers. We were.
Real members, verified
Before you can message anyone, you confirm your email (Bronze), then match a government-issued photo ID to a live selfie (Silver). A pastor, elder, or church leader can add an optional Gold recommendation.
Adventist by design
Filter by Sabbath observance, diet, baptism, ministry involvement, and life goals — values that actually matter for an SDA marriage.
Built for marriage
No casual swiping culture. Members join with the intent of finding a Christ-centered spouse — and we keep it that way.
Reverent, not stale
An interface that feels as thoughtful as your faith. Modern, warm, and respectful from your first visit.
More than a meetup website
A community, not just a platform
ABMG was created because Christian relationships deserve more than endless swiping and carefully curated profile pictures.
Meeting in real life
Technology is a useful introduction, but relationships are built in person. As we grow, we organize regional gatherings, social events, and retreats centered on shared faith.
The best relationships are built
Through coaching, seminars, podcasts, and conversations with pastors and experienced couples, we help members grow the qualities that make lasting relationships possible.
Character determines what lasts
Attraction may start a conversation; character decides whether it becomes a lifelong relationship. We cultivate a culture of kindness, honesty, and mutual respect.
Bridging the distance
Many Adventist singles face simple geography — compatible believers attending churches in different cities and countries. ABMG helps bridge that distance with faith at the center.
Meaningful introductions, not endless swiping
Most apps maximize engagement. We maximize meaningful introductions — through conversations, events, and resources that help people know each other as individuals.
Our promise
Faith first. Always.
We exist for one reason: to help committed Seventh-day Adventist young people meet, court with intention, and form Christ-centered homes that honor God.
- Adventist-only membership, verified
- No anonymous browsing — accountability matters
- Pastor / elder reference option for highest trust
- Tools that encourage real conversation, not games
Built on a foundation
Seven foundations of a Christ-centered marriage
Before profiles and matches, we believe in a vision of marriage worth building toward — rooted in Scripture, prayer, and the daily habits that protect love.
Read the seven foundations- Christ at the center
- Communication that honors
- Conflict to connection
- Covenant, not contract
- Daily habits that protect love
- Purity, trust, and boundaries
- A home that reflects heaven
Simple & intentional
Three steps from sign-up to soulmate
01
Create your profile
Tell us about your faith journey, home church, lifestyle, and what you're seeking in an Adventist spouse.
02
Get verified
Bronze: confirm your email. Silver: match your photo ID to a live selfie. Gold: an optional recommendation from your home church.
03
Meet with intention
Match with members aligned on faith, Sabbath, diet, ministry, and life goals. Message only mutual matches.
Stories of grace
Real Adventists. Real love stories.
“I'd given up on dating apps. This was different from day one — every profile felt like meeting someone at camp meeting.”
Naomi K.
Member, 28 — North America
“We met here, courted with our pastors' blessing, and married within the year. To God be the glory.”
David & Esther
Married 2024 — ages 34 & 31
“Finally, an app where I don't have to explain Sabbath, vegetarianism, or why jewelry isn't my thing.”
Marcus T.
Member, 41 — UK
Love at every season
Not just for twenty-somethings
From singles in their thirties to widows, widowers, and those rediscovering love after fifty — every adult age belongs here.
“After my wife went to sleep in Jesus, I never imagined love again. Then I met Ruth here. We pray together every Sabbath morning. The Lord is good to His children at every season.”
Samuel O.
Widower, 67 — Kenya
“I almost didn't sign up because of the name — I'm 54, not a girl! But I set my age range to 50–65 and found a community of mature, faithful Adventists in the same chapter of life.”
Patricia M.
Divorced, 54 — Australia
“Sixty-two and serving the Lord with a new partner. We met here, courted slowly, and married last spring. Don't believe the lie that it's too late.”
George & Linda
Married 2024 — ages 62 & 59
Our Vision
One conversation, one friendship, one family at a time.
We believe there are thousands of Adventist singles who are sincere about their faith and serious about building a Christ-centered relationship. Many simply have not had the opportunity to meet.
Our mission is to create those opportunities — not by replacing God's leading, but by removing unnecessary barriers that keep faithful people from ever crossing paths.
If ABMG succeeds, it will not simply be because relationships begin here. It will be because a stronger Adventist community is formed.
Common questions
What members ask before joining
- Is there an age limit? The name says "boy meets girl"…
- Don't let the name fool you — "boy meets girl" simply honors God's biblical design for marriage between a man and a woman. Every adult age is warmly welcome: 18, 38, 58, 78. When you join, you set your own preferred age range, and we'll only show you matches inside it. Whether you're a young single, a divorcee, or a widow/widower seeking companionship in Christ, you belong here.
- Can I really use it for free?
- Yes. You can build a complete profile, get verified, browse matches, like other members, and receive likes — all at no cost. A subscription is required to send messages and to use advanced filters (such as filtering by verification status, country, or premium members only). Free members can still reply to messages from premium members.
- Who can join?
- AdventistBoyMeetsGirl is built exclusively for Seventh-day Adventist singles aged 18 and over who are seeking a Christ-centered marriage. There is no upper age limit — you choose the age range you'd like to meet. Every member passes verification before being shown to others.
- How does verification work?
- Three layers: email confirmation, government-ID + selfie review, and an optional home-church reference from your pastor or elder. The more you complete, the higher your trust badge — and the more visible your profile becomes.
- Why does messaging require a subscription?
- A small paywall keeps the community serious and free of spam. As long as one person in the conversation has an active subscription, both can exchange messages — so a free member can always reply to a premium member.
- Can I cancel anytime?
- Yes. You can cancel from your dashboard with one click and you'll keep premium access until the end of your billing period.
- Who qualifies as a founding member?
- Members who joined from May 7 through August 31, 2026 are founding members. They keep Diamond free until December 31, 2026, may upgrade to Premium for $39 per month, and retain their founder badge.
